Matchmaking Rules

General Rules:


  1. Introductions and matches are made on a case-by-case basis and will only occur when a suitable match is available. While we cannot provide a specific timeline, we will do our best to make introductions as soon as possible.
  2. You'll get up 2-3 Introductions within a given match cycle. After these 2-3 potential matches and introductions were unsuccessful, we will have no further obligation to provide matches or introductions, and your membership will be terminated.
  3. The following preference form fields have deal-breaker parameters. That is, whatever you filled into these fields are followed meticulously and will be implemented as direct instructions from you. Therefore, ensure that the inputs in these fields reflect your actual deal-breakers. The fields are: 
    - Preferred Age Range, Preferred State of Life; Would You Court Someone Who Smokes?; Would You Court Someone With Children?; and Acceptance of Church's Teachings.
  4. Minimum of 4 photos are required, and that includes your profile photo. At least, one of our photos should present your full appearance. Please adhere to Catholic modesty standards in dressing. That is, look decent; avoid suggestive clothing; and minimize bare skin exposure. As such, tank tops/shirts, yoga pants, and bum shorts are not allowed. Review your photos to effect these changes, if you haven't done so.
  5. Use your discretion and best judgment before exchanging personal contact information.
  6. If your account gets removed on account of violation of matchmaking rules, you may not be reinstated.

    Specific Rules for Men:

    1. The 3-day rule: Men have the burden of pursuit and first-move privilege on our platform. When a match is made, you'll receive mutual introduction emails to this effect.
    2. You'll have 3 days after an introduction is made to initiate a conversation or reach out to your match.  Failure to do so will result in your account removal. No exceptions! Ensure you check your emails (and spam folders) on introductions days.

    Specific Rules for Women:


    1. The 3-day rule: Men have the burden of pursuit and first-move privilege on our platform. As such, we expect that you'd honor their courage and effort when they messaged or reached out to you by acknowledging them and responding on time.

      2. You'll have 3 days to respond to the first message from your introduced matches. If a man send you a message for the first time after introduction, you're obliged to respond within 3 days. Failure to do so will result in your account removal. No exceptions! Ensure you check your emails (and spam folders) on introductions days..